NEIGHBORHOOD The Golden Wedding of Damas and Elizabeth Wheeler Fifty Years Married, and Fifty Years of Contented Life on the Broad Shawnee Prairie It Reads Like a Story of Arcadia - A Model Community Item and Gossip From the Wea Plains Tuesday, March 22d, was the scene of a
very pleasant event at Shawnee
Mound School-house, namely, the celebration of the golden
wedding of Mr.
and Mrs. Damas Wheeler, and since it was the first
that had ever occurred
in Jackson township, it created quite a sensation.
The family had
intended to celebrate the anniversary at the old
homestead, but the fire
last fall having deprived them of their spacious house,
and the present
accommodations not being considered sufficient, it was
proposed by David
Meharry that they have the exercises at the school
house. The proposition
was accepted. A committee of arrangements was
appointed and the invitation
extended to all. Accordingly at 10:30 A.M. on the
day named the people
and their well-filled baskets began to arrive. Soon
the loaded tables
bore testimony as to the contents of the baskets. To
a hungry person
it was indeed a goodly sight to look upon. At half
past twelve the
aged couple arrived, and were conducted to seats in the
front. Rev.
H. A. Merrill then arose and read an address, after
which Mr. and Mrs.
Wheeler renewed the pledges which were made fifty years
ago. Rev.
W. L. Grilling, of Sadous, Ill., led in
prayer. After prayer,
Rev.
Merrill said that he would set an example which he
wished every one
in the room would follow. He then kissed the
bride. Quite a
number followed the example. All having the
opportunity to extend
their greetings, Mrs. Dr. Hunt arose and in a few
well chosen remarks,
extended congratulations and best wishes to Mr. and
Mrs. Wheeler.
The company were then placed at the tables, and just as
each was looking
to see what he would eat first, William McMillin
arose, and, in
a few pointed remarks, presented, in the name of the
donors, an envelope
containing $33 in gold. Word was then passed "help
yourself," and
in a short time but the remains of the feast were left.
While the people were eating, your
reporter learned that Mr. and
Mrs. Wheeler had been residents of Jackson Township,
and had lived
in the same place, for the past fifty years. Of the
family there
are three children, twelve grandchildren and one
great-grandchild.
All were present except two. Death has visited the
family but once,
and then it took a grandchild.
Among the presents we noticed the
following: To Mrs. Wheeler:
a pair of gold spectacles, by C. H. Kiff, Attica;
gold scarf pin,
Mrs.
Robert Sayers; linen cap border, by Mrs.
Griffing; embroidered
chair tidy, by Zetta Jennings; motto, "A Token of
Love," by Ada
Jennings; a pair of nickel plated scissors by Emma
Black.
To both, the following persons each presented five dollars in gold: C. H. Kiff, Mr. and Mrs. G. N. Meharry, Samuel Meharry, David Meharry, Jesse Meharry, and John K. McMillin. The following persons each
gave one dollar in gold: H. A. Merrill, Mrs. James C.
Carter, Eddie
and Flora Meharry, G. W. Odell, A. C. McCorkle, and
Mrs. Griffing.
After dinner order was restored and
short speeches were made by Samuel
Meharry, G. W. Odell, Hugh Wallace, and John K.
McMillin.
Rev. Merrill then announced that the "Woman's
Foreign Missionary Society"
had made Sister Wheeler a life member. He
also read the following
letter from Jesse Meharry:
Damas and Elizabeth Wheeler -- Dear Friends: -- Fifty years ago this fall my wife and I came to this place. I then became acquainted with you. I have been thinking how much the present generation owe to those who shaped our beautiful place. W. L. Newman, uncle of Sister Wheeler, kept the preacher's home. His home was the first temple where God's children met to worship. But three of us are left who sang and prayed together and formed the first class. The rest are not. Good took them. Their names are as ointment poured forth. At that time there was not a carpet in this place. Five dollars would purchase all the furniture found in the cabins. The people were honest and industrious. Profanity and vulgarity were unknown. In fifty years I have never heard twelve oaths. The people have been always kind to me. They have always regarded my feelings. Had my wife lived till the 10th of August and should my own life be spared till then we could have celebrated our golden wedding. As it is she now walks the gold paved streets, waves palms of victory, wears the white robes and a crown. I am alone, yet not alone, for God is with me. We are old. Time with us is short. Soon the Master will bid us go. Let us be ready. If we miss Heaven we miss all. The Lord bless you and spare you to each other till the last. Your friend, Jesse Meharry. The tables were cleared and the people
dispersed after having expressed
themselves as having enjoyed a most delightful time.
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