Submitted by: Dan Rich
Philip John Treely
Sept. 5, 1911 - Nov. 15, 2007
South Bend Tribune 11/17/2007
MISHAWAKA - Philip John Treely, 96, passed away peacefully
Thursday, November 15. Philip began his journey on Earth on
September 5, 1911, as the son of John and Francis (Lancaster)
Treely.
He was born and raised in Mishawaka and
continued his love for his hometown by marrying Marguerite Nadjeck
and raising his children in the quiet Indiana town with Midwest
values he held so dearly. A simple man of simple means, he worked
hard to achieve the American Dream. He was a devoted employee to
Uniroyal for over 47 years and knew the value of hard work and a
dollar earned. He was a charter member of the DeAmici's Club and
is the last of the five founding members to pass.
His children, Phyllis Klosinski
(Mike) and Ronald Treely (Shelli) survive; along with three
grandchildren, Chris Klosinski (Sherrill), and Kelsey and Phillip
Treely; and two great-grandchildren, Krista and Austin Klosinski.
His favorite term of endearment was simply,
Grandpa. As a member of the Greatest Generation, Grandpa felt
honored to serve his country during World War II as a Navy
welder. Until his death, he would not think of going to bed
without reading the newspaper in its entirety to keep abreast of
world, national, and local news. He was never without an opinion
as to why the United States is a great nation and what needs to
continue or be changed in order to keep her great. His loyalty to
the democratic process was most admired when he changed his
travel plans at the age of 92 for the sole purpose of casting his
ballot. He knew his best friend was going to vote in opposition
of "the best candidate," and wanted to make certain he
cancelled out his vote. Grandpa was a proud American. His
happiest days were spent at the lake enjoying the scenery and
teaching his grandchildren to love and respect the water as he
did. He passed along the finer points of water safety as well as
how to bait a hook. He always had a word of encouragement as they
were learning to ski and wake board. "Don't give up,"
he would say, "you'll get the feel of the tug and soon
you'll have it." and they did. In his later days, he often
stayed on shore grilling hamburgers and hot dogs for the hungry
appetites water sports created. It brought him great pleasure as
they would whiz past waving with one hand and holding onto the
rope with the other. It warmed his heart to hear the laughter of
his grandchildren after they caught fish, captured turtles, or
conquered the white caps of Christiana Lake. Grandpa was a great
teacher.
Remembering Grandpa would not be complete
without remarks about how he loved Notre Dame - especially the
football program. He knew supporting his team was not for the
faint of heart and cheered on the Fighting Irish in the good
times and the bad. He was a great coach and could easily identify
weaknesses from his favorite Saturday afternoon seat - the couch.
We're certain he's talking now with other Notre Dame greats
who have passed and orchestrating divine intervention for a long
awaited victory. Your victory has come, Grandpa. Enjoy the games
from your well-deserved best seat in the house. Grandpa was a
devoted fan. Another favorite pastime of Grandpa's was playing
cards. He passed along his winning techniques to all who would
listen, especially his grandchildren. He taught them many of
life's lessons through the game of Euchre. "Never, ever
trump your partner's ace," he would declare, "Have
faith that things will work out." He said, "Even if
you're not sure of what the outcome might be and you're scared,
sometimes you just have to go alone. Learn to depend on
yourself." And Grandpa's greatest lesson, "I don't care
if the score is 9 to 1, don't ever give up! Stay focused on the
game, dig in your heels, play fair and hard. The game's not over
yet." His echoes of insight resonate in our hearts. Even
without the benefit of a high school diploma, Grandpa's wisdom
matched his years and will be reflected upon as his children and
grandchildren pass what they've learned from him on to future
generations. Grandpa was a brilliant man. Grandpa passed away
while a loved one held his hand. He had a smile on his face and
softly whispered, "Tell everyone I love them." We love
you, too, Grandpa. He moved on with peace in his heart, satisfied
that his mission on Earth was complete. We should all be so
lucky. As time goes by, the memories of quiet conversations over
coffee, watching a good movie with loved ones, and solving life's
problems over a glass of wine will be cherished even more by
those who wish they had just one more day with this beloved man.
A graveside service for Grandpa Treely was
held at St. Joseph Cemetery on Friday November 16, 2007. You can
pay tribute to this man by making the lives of others a little
brighter. Grandpa would be honored if he were remembered through
random acts of kindness, especially to our military personnel.
Please consider thanking a veteran or active soldier this holiday
season with a card of appreciation. Bubb Funeral Chapel handled
arrangements.