Submitted by: Dan Rich
Joyce Nadine Snyder
Sept. 29, 1932
- Nov. 21, 2008
South Bend Tribune
11/23/2008
SOUTH BEND - We say goodbye and celebrate the life of Joyce
Nadine Snyder, 76, who passed away on November 21, 2008. Her
health recently spiraled down after years contending with heart
failure and partial paralysis. Her last few days were in the care
of Memorial Hospital and Hospice House of South Bend. Joyce was
born on September 29, 1932, in Oakwood, Marion County, Missouri,
to Charles Marshall Kane and Jessie Marie (Green)
Kane. At the age of nine, she and her mother moved to Elkhart,
Indiana. Her mother was remarried to Albert Fredrick Quitt
and moved to South Bend, Indiana. As Joyce Nadine Kane, she
married Gerald Lee Snyder on November 28, 1953. Joyce and Gerald
lived most of their 55 years of marriage in South Bend. Her
father, mother, infant brother and stepfather preceded her in
death. Joyce is survived by her husband. She is also survived by
her daughter, Anyce Marie (Snyder) and husband, Steven John Bothast,
with grandson, Thomas Schuyler Bothast of South Bend, and
granddaughter, Jessica Marie Bothast of Downers Grove, Illinois,
who is engaged to be married to Kareem Hammad on May 9,
2009; her daughter, Jennifer Lee (Snyder) and husband, Brian
Keith Carlson, with granddaughters, Kolleen Lee and
Gillian Lee of Vancouver, Washington; her son, Joel Lee Snyder,
and wife, Margaret Kagel Snyder, with grandsons, Jacob
Schuyler and Lucas Ethan of South Bend.
Until recently, Joyce
had a very active life. She graduated from Washington Clay High
School with the class of 1950. Her classmates were among her
lifelong friends. She received an honorary degree from Tri-State
University upon her husband's graduation with a degree in
mechanical engineering. She worked at Standard Oil in South Bend
as a comptometer operator while Gerald was in college. Joyce and
Gerald lived in Wichita, Kansas, while Gerald worked at The
Boeing Airplane Company. Joyce returned home after Gerald was
drafted in the Army. Gerald was in the 1st Infantry Division
stationed in Germany and later at Fort Riley, Kansas. Joyce moved
to Manhattan, Kansas, to be with her husband until he was
released from active duty. Joyce was a loving and devoted mother.
She did not put up with any nonsense from her children. Joyce
worked for 10 years at Valley Lea Dairies as a receptionist to
help put her children through college. Joyce traveled extensively
with her family and with her husband on his business trips. She
didn't really enjoy card games, but she and Gerald played in a
couples bridge group for over 30 years. In accordance with
Joyce's instruction, her remains will be offered for medical
purposes and then cremated. Her ashes are to be scattered from
the old Darden Road Bridge.
There will not be a viewing. A private celebration of life services will be held at a later date. The family suggests any memorial donations be made to The Hospice House, 111 Sunnybrook Court, South Bend, IN 46637-3437. The Welsheimer Family Funeral Home is handling arrangements.