Submitted by: Dan Rich
Oct. 29, 1908 - Sept. 28, 2008
South Bend Tribune 10/1/2008
SOUTH BEND - Earl E. May, 99, of 6450 Miami Circle, South
Bend, died of congestive heart failure at 1:10 p.m. Sunday, Sept.
28, 2008, in the nursing facility at Southfield Village. Mr. May
was born on October 29, 1908, in Middleton, MO, to the late
Arlington and Nellie (Fowler) May, and had lived in South
Bend since 1930, coming from Chicago, IL. On May 20, 1939, in
South Bend, Mr. May married Frances I. Phillips, who
preceded him in death in 2005. Surviving are a daughter, Kathryn
"Katie" Welser (John) of Hickory Corners, MI; a
son, Douglas E. May (Jennifer) of Annapolis, MD; four
grandchildren, Jeffrey Welser (Mike Guthrie), Jennifer
Welser, Shelly Kirkpatrick (Seth) and Matthew May
(Christy); seven great-grandchildren, Matthew D. May, Mitchell
Kirkpatrick, Kayla May, Sydney and Zachary Kirkpatrick, Alyssa
and Chloe May.
Earl was an employee of the Bendix
Corporation for 45 years, in brake sales, director of sales
administration and director of purchasing. Following his
retirement in 1973, he was a longtime member of the Bendix Senior
Management Club. In 1979, as a member of SCORE, he began
consulting with St. Mary's College on a temporary basis, later
becoming director of purchasing until his second retirement in
1986. He was a member of the South Bend Elks Lodge, and was a
board member of the South Bend YMCA. A member of Sunnyside
Presbyterian Church for over 60 years, he served as trustee,
elder, and was a member of pastoral search committees and several
capital campaigns. As a young man, Earl was active in theater
with the Turner Players of the South Bend Turner Hall, and early
in his business career he was an active mentor as part of the
Junior Achievement program in South Bend. One month shy of his
100 birthday, Earl amazingly remained interested and engaged in
all aspects of life. But what family and friends treasured most
was his unfailing interest in them - never judging and always
providing support and encouragement to all those around him. His
positive attitude infected all who knew him and will be sorely
missed in his family, his church and the community.
Funeral services will be held at 11 a.m. Thursday, Oct. 2nd, in Sunnyside Presbyterian Church, 115 S. Francis St., with Rev. James Miller officiating. The family will receive friends in the church from 10 a.m. until the time of the services on Thursday. A luncheon will be served in the church following the services. Burial will follow the luncheon at St. Joseph Valley Memorial Park, Granger. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Sunnyside Presbyterian Church, 115 S. Frances St., South Bend, IN 46617; or to Southern Care Hospice, 310 W. McKinley Ave., Mishawaka, IN 46545. Welsheimer Family Funeral Home is handling the arrangements.