Submitted by: John C. Monk
Bonnie
J. Hurley
Feb. 25, 1949 - April 7, 2010
SOUTH BEND - Bonnie J. Hurley passed away in Colorado Springs, CO
Wednesday, April 7, 2010 after a brief illness. She was born
February 25, 1949 in South Bend, IN to Shirley and Walter
Zultanski. Bonnie first met the love of her life, Mark Steven
Hurley, when they were 8 years old. They were school mates at
Harrison Elementary School and Washington High School. While
serving in the U.S. Army in Germany, Mark received orders for
Viet Nam and spent his leave time in South Bend where he renewed
his friendship with Bonnie. They fell in love. Following Mark's
discharge from the Army, were married on May 20, 1972 and had 3
wonderful children; Shannon (Ben Eisen) of Los Angeles, CA, Sean
of Kansas City, KS, and Ryan (Laurel) currently serving on active
duty with the Army in Iraq. Bonnie loved music and performed as a
professional singer for many years while juggling her role as a
wife, mother and working for the United States Postal Service for
over 26 years. Her daughter, Shannon, continues the family
tradition as a singer/song writer. Bonnie brightened everyone's
day just being around her. Her upbeat personality made being with
her a joy. She was a very caring person who put the needs of
others first. Bonnie enjoyed a very happy and full filling life.
TRIBUTE FROM HER SISTER My sister, my best friend. We have had so
much fun through the years. As children we were together
constantly, playing outside with our friends from morning until
late night. Making mud pies, playing hide and go seek, hopscotch,
twirling our batons with mother providing the accompaniment on
her accordion, riding our bicycles, jumping rope, sitting on a
blanket in our yard on a beautiful sunny, summer afternoon
playing with our dolls, catching lightning bugs, jumping in mud
puddles in front of our house after a summer rain, our back yard
talent shows, kool-aid stands, ice skating and walking home with
our ice skates on with our frozen toes. We started singing
together when you were only 5 years old, and you had the hard
part because you sang the harmony. How did you do that? You were
right on key and sang perfect harmony. You were so amazing. For
years we sang in talent shows all over Indiana and Michigan, and
performed songs that mother wrote for us, at so many functions.
Both of us ended up singing with bands all over the area, at
times singing together with these bands. Through our school years
we were always together. Living in a two bedroom house meant we
shared a bedroom as well as a clothes closet, often trading
clothes. You were the maid of honor at my wedding and I was the
matron of honor at your wedding. We were together as we raised
our children. What fun we had. Our children were fortunate to
have the opportunity to spend so much time together. These recent
years have kept us apart due to living in separate states, but
the times we were able to see one another during those years
meant the world to me, as well as our two hour phone
conversations which always only seemed like minutes. We are truly
so much alike. I have always had the utmost respect and love for
you. We have never been angry with one another because we have
never had a disagreement through all these years. I will love and
miss you always Bonnie. Our special bond and incredible memories
will go on forever. Bonnie is survived by her father, her
husband, her children, and her sister, Carol (Chuck) Copley. She
was preceded in death by her mother. Services will be held from
12:00-3:00 PM, Saturday, April 17, 2010 at Hahn's Funeral Home in
Mishawaka, IN. To leave the family an online condolence or to
share memories with the family, please visit our website at www.hahnfuneralhomes.com.
Published in South Bend Tribune on April 16, 2010