Submitted by: John C. Monk
Harvey
F. Barnhart
Sept.
14, 1925 - March 30, 2010
MISHAWAKA - Harvey Fredrick Barnhart, 84, passed away on Tuesday,
March 30th, in the Waterford at Edison Lakes, Mishawaka.
"Barney" Barnhart, as his friends called him, was born
in LaPorte, IN, as a twin who passed away his first week of life,
to Vera Young and Fred Barnhart. He was the oldest son and one of
five children. He was preceded in death by Evelyn Piecuch of
Michigan City, Marjorie Jensen of Kokomo, IN, Richard Barnhart of
New Lenox, IL, and Donald Barnhart of Seattle, WA. Proud to have
served as a U.S. Marine in WW II, he had to get his parents
permission due to the fact he was too young. He served in Saipan
and Tinian and Okinawa in 1943, 1944 and 1945 as a field
artillery crewman. Then he was called back as an instructor for
artillery crewmen for the Korean War in 1952. Between the two
wars, Barney met his future wife when his mother Vera introduced
him to Gladys Varda at the Sugar Ration Board in South Bend.
Barney and Gladys married at St. Bavo Catholic Church, Mishawaka,
on Gladys' birthday, September 1, 1947, and built a home in Rose
Park in 1949. Here they built not only a house but a home, and
filled it with friends and family, regularly with pool parties,
cookouts, Sunday brunches and choir parties. He served proudly as
a City of Mishawaka Police Officer where he retired with the rank
of Captain of Detectives in August 1972. Once delivering a baby
in the back seat of a squad car. Making lifelong friends like
Pete and Doralyn Stebbins, Bob and Lorraine DeGeeter, Moose and
Ginny DeGeyter, LeRoy and Jeanne Vanbruane. The wonderful and
kind things he did in his life are countless along with the
people who loved him. His advice to Mara was "if you
don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all."
And Gladys' advice backed that up with "if they do ----
consider the source and move on." We were so lucky to
have been chosen by them. Yes, chosen, Barney and Gladys adopted
three children: the oldest, James Barnhart, who married Donita
Catanzarite and now have three children, Adam, Catherine and
Joseph, all of Mishawaka; the oldest daughter, Patricia Ann
Barnhart, who is single and lives with her cat, Twinkie, also of
Mishawaka; and the youngest, Mara Barnhart, who now lives in the
family home and has a son, Kevin Steen, and a daughter, Melissa
Steen, and "Barney's Girls," great-granddaughters,
Gabby and Cienna. Gladys passed away on January 23, 2006, at
Hospice House in Roseland. After three years at home, Barney
moved on by re-visiting the past. For Father's Day 2007, Patricia
and Mara surprised him by taking him on a trip to Millersville,
OH, to visit a WW II buddy by the name of Billy Hill and his
lovely wife, Lola. They had kept in touch over the 63 years since
they shared a foxhole in WW II. An unforgettable three days at
Bill and Lola's home where they not only welcomed us, but also
had a ramp built special so Barney's scooter could go in and out
of their home with ease. What good, kind, gracious people that
generation yielded. We all felt right at home. Barney was feeling
great and so the second half of his Father's Day present was
revealed... we had booked us all the way to Washington, DC, where
we visited the new WW II Memorial that both Barney and Gladys
were in. 2000 miles were logged on the van's odometer in those
two weeks along with great times and wonderful memories for all.
It was the last trip before he moved into the Waterford, where he
spent his last days on Earth. His sweetheart next door, Millie
Rosenfeld, his great friend, Myra Ahrens, and his across-the-hall
friend, Jean Gastel, all of who called and stopped daily even
before he got sick. Barney was also in the drama club at the
Waterford, called "the Park Players." He was into
everything for the last year of his life, and he was happy to be
there with everyone. That is why the viewing and the funeral will
be at the Waterford Retirement Community at Edison Lakes, 1025
Park Place, Mishawaka, on Saturday, April 3rd, from 10:00 a.m. to
noon. He will then be buried at Fairview Cemetery next to his
wife, Gladys, and in-laws, Mary and Jim Varda, on the West Side
of the Cemetery, right at the roadside. Wave to him when you pass
by and say a prayer when you think of him. He'll be up in Heaven
watching over you as your guardian angel. In memory of Harvey,
the family requests that memorial donations be made to the Center
for Hospice and Palliative Care, 111 Sunnybrook Court, South
Bend, IN 46637. To leave the family an online condolence or to
share memories with the family, please visit our website at www.hahnfuneralhomes.com.
Published in South Bend Tribune on April 1, 2010