FR. HILARY G. MENY
“Tu es sacerdos
in aeternum.”
“Thou art a priest forever.”
On October 7, 2016, Father Hilary George Adam Meny,
beloved uncle, great-uncle, great-great uncle, and pastor, was gently lifted up
to Heaven, after a wonderful Life of 101+ years here on earth.
Born on January 21, 1915, to Bernard and Catherine (Emmert) Meny, Hilary grew up in Haubstadt, Indiana.
After attending grade school at Sts.
Peter and Paul Catholic School, Hilary attended St. Meinrad
Seminary. On May 14, 1940, he was ordained to the Holy Priesthood by the Most
Reverend Joseph E. Ritter, and celebrated his First Mass at Sts.
Peter and Paul Catholic Church on May 19, 1940
Fr. Meny’s first priestly
assignment took him to St. Philip Neri Parish
Indianapolis, where he served as a junior assistant until 1947. After this, Fr.
Meny served at St. Joe Hill Parish in Clark County
and at St. Vincent de Paul Parish in Bedford.
In 1949, Fr. Meny was named pastor of St. Patrick’s
Church in Madison, Indiana, where he lovingly served for over 40 years. While
pastor at St. Patrick’s, Fr. Meny was instrumental in
establishing Shawe Memorial Catholic High School,
where he served as superintendant and Pope John XXIII
Catholic Grade School. During his tenure at St. Patrick’s, he also served the
parish of the Most Sorrowful Mother of God Church in Vevay,
Indiana.
In 1990, Fr. Meny retired from the
active priesthood, moving back to Haubstadt where he lived with his dear sister
Renilda and her husband George Kissel.
Back in his hometown, Fr. Meny – affectionately
called “Uncle” – was surrounded with the love of family and friends.
Proof of how much Fr. Meny was
loved, admired and cherished was evidenced at Father’s 100th Birthday
Celebration in January 2015, when hundreds of people came from near and far to
honor this very special man who had touched, and enriched, their lives. The
celebration was an event of historical proportion for the town of Haubstadt.
Throughout his life, Fr. Meny
received accolades for his many accomplishments. In 1988, Fr. Meny was honored by Shawe
Memorial High School when the school’s gymnasium was named the Hilary G. Meny Gymnasium. Father also received an honorary diploma
from the school, and later their Golden Shamrock Award for Special Service.
Because of his firm belief in the value of Catholic education, in 1998, Fr. Meny received the Career Achievement Award from the
Archdiocese of Indianapolis.
Fr. Meny was a lifetime member of
the Knights of Columbus, and was also named a Kentucky Colonel. He was a
charter member of the Haubstadt Historical Society, a constant supporter of
Gibson County Right to Life and an avid fan of Notre Dame and Mater Dei sports.
In his lifetime, Father visited five of the seven continents, and always
claimed that Rome was his favorite place to visit. And even though Fr. Meny had enjoyed food from all around the world, he definitely
preferred home cooked and homegrown foods like fresh tomatoes, fried chicken
legs, beef barley soup, peanuts, popcorn and a cold beer.
Father was preceded in death by his dear parents, sister and brother-in-law.
Survivors include his loving care-giving nieces Maureen Ruggles (Joe), Laurette Faraone
(Bernie), Rachelle Gore (Ted), Celeste Karcher
(Dave), Carmen Jay (Rick) and nephew Greg Kissel
(Linda). He is also survived by his 19 great nieces and nephews and their
spouses, and by his 14 great nieces and nephews.
On Wednesday, October 12, at 11:00 a.m., a Mass celebrating
the Life of Fr. Hilary George Adam Joseph Vincent Meny
will be offered by Archbishop Joseph Tobin, Bishop Charles Thompson, Fr. Tony
Ernst and brother Priests at Sts. Peter and Paul
Catholic Church in Haubstadt. Visitation will be held in Church on Tuesday,
October 11, from 4:00 – 8:00 p.m., and on Wednesday, from 9:00 – 11:00 a.m. A
Rosary will be prayed in the Church at 7:30 on Tuesday evening. (Note: all
times listed are Central Daylight Time.)
The Family of Fr. Meny would like to extend heartfelt
thanks to all the blessed caregivers for their friendship and constant love and
devotion; to the dear people of Madison, Indiana, who have remained steadfast
in their faithfulness to Fr. Meny; and Fr. Tony Ernst
for being a true and forever friend to “Uncle”. And first and foremost, the
Family thanks God for his Benevolence in gracing their Lives with this dear,
humble, remarkable man who loved his God, his Family and his friends with his
complete heart and soul, and who has left a legacy of Faith and Service so
great that he will be long remembered for generations to come.