We celebrate the life of Melba Rose Schultheis
as she is reunited with her husband and partner of forty-four years, Hilary
Francis Schultheis.
Born on October 14, 1921, the third of
eight children of George and Catherine Rexing,
Melba became a master gardener at a young age. Her
love for living plants and flowers grew while assisting her parents in the
family flower and gardening business.
Melba's husband Hilary once expressed his
desire to have twelve children, and indeed Melba and Hilary are survived by
their twelve children and their spouses: Charlene (Jim) Braker,
Nadine (Tom) Grant, Jenal (Jim) Vessels, Terry
(Bonnie) Schultheis, Melba (Fred) Pohl, Laurel
(Carroll) Wheatley, Sandra (Paul) Bender, Hilary (Joni) Schultheis,
Johnny (Celeste) Schultheis, Vickie (Rob) Shaffer,
Colleen (Gary) Nolen and David (Nancy) Schultheis.
Cheaper by the dozen! Twenty-six grandchildren, twenty-seven great-grandchildren
and six great-great grandchildren also survive.
For 25 years Melba and Hilary owned and
operated a unique Fort Branch floral and greenhouse business. Melba's
artistic ability was demonstrated with thousands of corsages and floral
arrangements where her creativity with design and color thrived. Since the
business flourished due to Melba's green thumb and the focused partnership of
Melba and Hilary, educational opportunities became available to all their
children.
Forming a truly equal personal and
business partnership, Melba and Hilary complemented each other with hard work,
grace, humility and a determination to make the best possible world for their
children. Demonstrating her love for her family, Melba single-handedly prepared
holiday meals for as many as 65, and the best pies one could ever have, until
the age of 83, when she retired to Holiday Retirement Village. Even then,
she continued to bake the world's best chocolate chip cookies and cook numerous
jars of strawberry jelly for all who visited.
A near-death experience with pneumonia at
a young age, at which time she received the last rites, prepared Melba (called Melbie by her siblings and close friends) for a life of
devotion to God. Having moved to Fort Branch in 1960, she was a member of Holy
Cross Catholic Church. She once revealed that she had personally seen and
spoken to Jesus, so she was always willing to accept what God put on her
plate. At Holy Cross she was a Eucharistic minister and volunteered to
wash and iron the linens for the church. She led the rosary regularly.
Always wishing to serve God with her thoughtfulness and love for everyone,
Melba volunteered at Owensville Nursing Home, giving treats and creating
corsages for the residents.
After the death of her husband, Melba
demonstrated her determination and ability to make difficult decisions, happily
living in her home -- with a huge garden, of course. Truly the salt of the
earth, she grew and harvested fruits and vegetables for friends and
family. Years later, recognizing the time was right to seek a retirement
community, she willingly chose a loving community, Holiday Village.
Melba was a recipient of the prestigious
Holy Cross Brute Award. She was also the Grand Marshall of the Ft. Branch
Heritage Days Parade.
The family wishes to thank the staff at
Holiday Retirement Village for their many years of love and care. We also
wish to thank River Pointe Health Campus and the doctors, nurses and staff of
St. Mary's Hospital, and finally we wish to thank the VNA Charlier
Hospice Center for their love and compassion given to us during this difficult
time..
A mass of Christian burial will be
conducted on Mon. May 19, 2014, at 11:00 AM at the Holy Cross Catholic Church
in Fort Branch, IN, Fathers Tony Ernst, Paul Fergusen,
Brian Emmick, and Bernard Lutz will be the
co-celebrants. Visitation will be on Sun. May 18, 2014 from 3:00 PM until
7:00 PM at the Stodghill Funeral Home located on Hwy.
168 West in Fort Branch, IN, and again from 9:30 AM until service time at the
church.